maybe women would be treated better and viewed with equal respect if so many of us didn’t tear each other down and do stupid conniving shit to other females in order to feel better about ourselves or to impress guys, maybe if we stood by each other no one would feel as inclined to degrade us….
If I could offer a young person advice about anything it would be do NOT make life decisions based on your boyfriend or girlfriend. Girls especially. Do NOT stay close to home for him, do not skip opportunities to travel or study abroad, do not pick a safe college to be with him. Expand your horizons. Broaden your own life. He is not the world.
Love how this is mainly to women, but I did this my freshman year of college and am still regretting it.